Self-hosting email: DNS, spam filters and reputation
Summary
davd delivers a reality check on running your own mail server and explains why DNS, deliverability, spam defence and reputation are harder than the actual server software. With email, self-hosting fails more often because of social trust than because of SMTP. Decentralisation only survives if small operators can achieve deliverability in practice.
Ideas
- Email remains a federated system between independently operated servers.
- SPF, DKIM and DMARC provide signals about senders and permitted sending paths.
- Reputation often matters more for delivery than formally correct protocols.
- Spam filtering requires ongoing observation instead of a one-off configuration.
Insights
- With email, self-hosting fails more often because of social trust than because of SMTP.
- Decentralisation only survives if small operators can achieve deliverability in practice.
Recommendations
- Check forward DNS, PTR, TLS, SPF, DKIM and DMARC before sending the first message.
- Monitor queues, bounces and reputation continuously.
References
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